Thank you. There are similar lessons like using magic unwisely (twice) and acting like a jerk to a best friend about a boyfriend he dislikes (twice) which were what I meant by not learning his lesson.

And honestly, I don't know what the fifth lesson was supposed to be.


Xander didn't understand what Buffy was going through in Becoming when she had to kill Angel and was such a jerk about it. Now fate is reversing the roles so he could experience with Anya what Buffy went through with Angel.